Jay graduated from Alpena High School in 1964, where he then attended Kemper Military School. Following graduation, Jay enlisted in the Army and became a proud member of the 82nd Airborne until his tour was up. After his service, Jay returned to Alpena, Michigan where he met the love of his life Michelle Lynn Ferguson. Smitten with love, they married Aug. 25, 1973 and moved to Marquette, Michigan where he attended Northern Michigan and received his B.A. in science in 1974. Jay was a loyal member of Big Brother/Sisters of America, American legion, and the VFW. He was: 1980 – Big Brother of the Year Sanilac County, 1981 Commander of the Year Sanilac County, 1981 Commander of the Year, 10th District, V.F.W., 1985 Teacher of the Year, Marlette Junior High.